The best place to get girlfriend is Walmart, isle 8, they have them on sale this week. Go quick, they may run out of stock soon. Hahahahahahaha kidding.
Well, I kinda feel like in giving you advice I’d be talking out of my ass because I’ve been single for like a year now and have an absolutely hopeless crush on my best friend Crystal, but I’ve had many girlfriends before so I’ll try. I mean this is probably the hardest question I’ve ever got. I waited so long to answer it because I didn’t even know what to say. But here I go:
Where - I would start at a place you frequent. For instance, if you’re a huge comic book fan, try to find a girl in the comic book store that likes the same comic book you do. Or maybe in a library you’ll see a girl that likes a book you’ve read. Not only is it an amazing conversation starter, you have something to talk about and you know you have common interests. It also really helps if you frequent the place because you’ll be more comfortable with your surrounds, which makes all the difference for us on the spectrum. And there is not a definite “perfect” place to find a girl. They are everywhere, so the opportunity is everywhere, you just have to be willing to take the chance. Do not try to hard however, like don’t be THAT guy and go into places women frequent just to get one. Like don’t go into Victoria’s Secret or like a candle store. The bar is a terrible place to pick up women. You can’t make a hoe a house wife, great rule of thumb. The women that go there go there for a reason, and it speaks to the type of girl they are. I’m not stereotyping women, and not all women that go there are bad people, I’m not saying that, but you have a better chance of find a superficial airhead then a girl who has a heart of gold and is well educated. And when girls are at the club, they travel in packs, making it far harder to say hi to them. Well, more intimidating at least. Try to be natural with where you go, best advice I can give you in that regard.
What - The best thing you can do is be YOU. Don’t ever try to be something you’re not. Then the girl will fall in love with your lies/act, not you. Just be you, and a girl will eventually (I’m still waiting) love you for exactly who you are. However, it’s never a bad thing to be a gentleman. That isn’t changing who you are, that’s just being respectful. Try every girl with respect, whether or not she gives you that same respect back. Always be honest, truthful, and straight forward with women, even if it hurts their feelings. Everyone, not just women, would rather be hurt by the truth than hurt twice by a lie. Always listen to her, and I mean actually care when you listen. Always make time for her, not excuses. Compliment her and notice the small things, like when she dresses up or wears something new. Go out of your way to small little cute things randomly, like flowers or chocolate. Listen to her and remember the small things, like things that she likes, and then randomly do them, she’ll have her mind blown and know you really care. Take her out to eat at her favorite place. Pick her brain and really get to know the real her. Compliment her on things besides her appearance, like the way she talks, thinks, or how much she cares and try so hard. Overall, the smallest things make the biggest difference, because it shows you listen and care. And just treat her like you’d treat your mom or how you’d want your daughter to be treated by her boyfriend.
Hopefully that helps! Let me know if you need any more advice :)