…off me and I feel bad but I don’t know what else to do. He just won’t listen”
I just wanted to make that one whole ask to make that simple on me and everyone reading. Now I don’t have to answer this in two parts and break up my answer to publish both parts of the ask.
I’ve never heard of two people with Asperger’s dating. I would ask how it is, but from what you tell me, it’s not too great. I’m kind of dumbfounded how a person with Aspergers couldn’t understand why you don’t want to be touched. I understand he doesn’t have sensory issues like you, but still. Just seems kind of vein. Like I have no advice on this one. He Autistic like you, so he should understand it does things you cannot control. And you told him from the beginning you don’t like touch and have reexplained you don’t like touch, and yet he continues to do it. I would make a big deal out of it and tell him to stop fucking touching you because it bothers you. I mean I know what you’re going through, when I had a girlfriend that lived with me, we would snuggle and sleep together every night, and some nights I couldn’t cuddle because I couldn’t be touched. But I don’t understand how he doesn’t understand. All I can advice is to make a big deal, cause an argument, and tell him either he stops or it’s over. It’s a very simple request. It’s not like you’re asking for much. And I understand how important touch, hugging, and kissing is to a relationship, but he’s not even trying to respect your boundaries you are setting. Idk. I’d fight and/or end the relationship. You deserve someone that respects and listens to you.